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Why do you like Brandy anyway? By that time we were in 10th grade and had years of friendship under our belt, but I was beginning to form an identity beyond being her best friend.

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So I ignored what she said and reveled in how important I felt that moment was. In the mid 90s, mainstream media did very little to promote young black female celebrities times clearly haven't changed.

You never hear about a little light skinned girl wanting to be dark skinned. They were programmed to believe that my black was beautiful and. What My Light-Skinned Best Friend Didn't Understand About My Pain, And What I Didn't Understand About Hers. ByBeyond Classically Beautiful, Contributor. A multimedia platform celebrating the diverse beauty of black women. 03/04/ I was new to the neighborhood and school so it was nice to be. I am not light-skinned, but I am closer to light-skinned than dark skinned, and I that other lighter skinned black folks have (“you think you're cute”, “you aren't Some of my darker-skinned friends have been considered African, and are . The New York Times: Near Black (Historical Experiences of White and Blackness ).

Brandy was arguably the first to defy those odds with her hit TV show, movie roles, major beauty and fashion endorsements, and multi-platinum albums. Despite her crazy work ethic, her beauty was often questioned.

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To me she was perfect. I kept my thoughts about that to myself since Candice couldn't understand why such a presence in the industry was so important to me--a dark skinned girl with a "weird Nigerian name" and foreign parents. I wasn't the typical Miami beauty. Candice on the other hand, fit right into the mold. She was half white frlend revered by Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend guys.

Her friendly demeanor made her a hit among the girls so she always had friends Wap sex partner Oslo her. I was drawn to her because of her personality, but still in the midst of her kindness was an air of privilege.

As a friend, I wanted her to reaffirm my beauty. At the very least, I wanted her to understand my pain. That pain stemmed from issues brought on by colorism and at the time I felt like Miami, my hometown or the south in general was the worst place to grow up as a dark skinned girl. Granted everyone has different experiences, but I'm of the Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend that being called "black" as a term of endearment by catcallers does something to the average teenage girl's psyche, whether they are aware of it or not.

In fairness being called "red" as a light skinned Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend could be equally damaging.

Candice knew she was the object of beauty and she never hesitated to make it known. Her mom was just as eager-like the time she took us to the local Dairy Queen and she noticed the cashier staring at her daughter.

I first met Candice the first day of 5th grade.

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But then things changed briefly. In my parents sent my sister and I to Hjdsome in Nigeria to attend school there. To this day I have so much appreciation for that time because my self-esteem improved a bit.

In Nigeria, my beauty didn't go unnoticed. I was American, and I was interesting. But I also fit in.

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I didn't have to explain my name to anyone. I was a Nigerian American. By the time Hot want sex Cochrane returned to Miami in 8th grade after lightsikn one year in Nigeria, I heard Candice had changed. So when she pulled up to my house with long bedazzled Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend nails and a fiery red weave stacked on top of her slick brown hair, I was only mildly shocked.

Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend It was then I learned that her parents got a divorce. She told me as if it was no big deal, so I never asked how she was coping. We resumed our usual adventures, but things had changed a bit. At times I felt like a fish out of water. She was allowed to have boyfriends come around.

She also had new female friends on heavy rotation. One day she told me she wanted to have a baby soon. At age 15 our conversations went from discussing our identical back-to-school clothes to swollen feet and baby shower plans.

As time went on we began drifting. I found a flock of friends who I could relate to and she transferred to a new school.

Years after we graduated from high school, I moved to New Hnvsome City. We somehow got in touch and spoke over the phone not long after I relocated. If you can do it, I should be able to do it," she said with her usual air of privilege. More years passed and we got in touch again on Facebook.

For a moment I reverted back Douglas ga horny girls that little dark-skinned girl from Miami who didn't know her worth, until I snapped out of it. I realized then that I was still allowing myself to be oppressed by her and the sick notion that dark skin is somehow a curse. It wasn't her responsibility to boost my self-esteem. That was my job.

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I had to face the realities of Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend in our society and let go of the pain it brought me. I had to figure out how to find beauty in all that I am regardless of the beauty standards that society continues to push. As I move further into my 30s more comfortable in my skin, I continue to work on shifting my perception of the things that once held my spirit hostage. This growth allowed me to open my mind to the fact lightskni Candice also showed signs of a teenage girl in pain.

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When she became a mother I never asked her how she Hndsome blk lightskin for new friend coping. I also never asked about how her parents' divorce affected her. I never understood her pain, just as she never understood mine. We merely existed in each other's worlds once upon a time.

Sometimes I wonder if our bond would have lasted if we both made an attempt to empathize with our individual stories. It's the kind of bond that colorism, low self-esteem, and a heightened sense of privilege don't allow.

But through our conscious minds, we can break those chains to create real friendships as we move forward. Follow Cheating wives Buffalo Kansas naked Classically Beautiful on: A multimedia platform celebrating the diverse beauty of black women.

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