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I'm just a gal who caint say "No" - I'm in a terribul fix January 26, 8: FWB, hookups, extreme libido - need help! I will bold my particular issues.

So 2 years out of my sexless and loyal marriage, I have an excessive libido. I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb want sex all the time, even ceel I've just had it. As an example, my FWB was determined to break all records with me, and even after a mad 36 hours of sex, I wanted more.

And as a truly unbelievable twist, despite years of trying really, I have I rarely achieve orgasm through masturbation. I just end up more frustrated. Yes, I Love in stratford a toy. Yes, I have practiced adfict a number of different techniques.

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I really don't think masturbation is going to be the solution to my problem. And this brings me to problem 2.

I know my FWB is not good for me. Oh, he's a lovely guy, and extremely awesome in bed, but he's very open and honest about his agenda which is twofold: While I'm okay with the first, mostly, I really I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb like the competition and the possibility that any one of the women he sleeps with may mean the end of my relationship with him.

I've tried to end it twice but - sex! So thirdly, get another sex partner right? But in two years of internet dating, I've mostly experienced crappy dates, or one-night stands icky - not good for me emotionally - but because I want sex I do it anywayFuck buddys Seaside oh, nice things like dates who I did have sex with but who turned into platonic friends instead and who do not want to go back there.

I have no idea how people get married within 12 months of their spouse dying - the logistics of it blow my mind. I have a pleasant face according to one of my plato-guysand my FWB assures me I'm incredibly sexy even tho overweight and losing consistently last 3 months.

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I'm self employed, sense of humour, independent, live alone, have multiple interests, can converse about just about anything, kind, smart - I wouldn't say I'm a catch, but neither am I terrible. Fab need to stop picking up randoms on the internet and having sex with them.

These are things I stop doing.

Three Things You Can Do When He’s Getting Emotionally Distant. Comments. a couple of months he told us we should avoid going out or eating out or buying stuff like clothes or toys because kids dont really need it.. I told him we only go out or eat out once a week and we only go to a cheap place and i only but toys because they deserve. I think more women should get a little introspective, and ask themselves if casual sex and FWB situations are having a positive effect on their mental well-being. I think it all comes down to self-esteem, though. The girls with the low self esteem feel like they need to be able to say, “Look, he sticks around even when he’s not getting. Sex isn’t good for me anymore with him, I don’t feel the connection I use to. I don’t feel the love I once did with it, that intensity. Tho I think it’s normal to go through the sex issue after infidelity.

Tell me what I need to start doing. You might consider talking to a therapist, as this sounds more like addictive behavior than "only" a strong libido.

I don't think this sounds like addictive I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb at all! I think you may Ribeirao das neves grannies wanting sex your libido is excessive because you spent much of your life in a sexually unfulfilling relationship, but it doesn't really sound like it, to me. I know you'll hate me for saying this, but as a fellow high-libido-having lady Do you dislike the fwb thing because you know it will end, because you resent him for not choosing you, or because you're falling for him?

I'm seconding talking to a therapist. I assume that you have a psychiatrist that is monitoring your meds? If not, you need a psychiatrist to monitor your meds first and a therapist second.

Therapists can spend more time with you talking about your goals, possib,y, solutions etc Many meds have compulsive behavior as a side-effect. There's nothing wrong with a vigorous sex life with the occasional ultra-marathon session. Nevertheless, you are of the opinion that it's causing trouble in your day-to-day life from what I read here and that's why talking to a therapist could help you figure things out.

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Whether or not this is sex addiction, which seems to be the unspoken question here, isn't a question of how many hours you went at it once.

It's a matter of 1 how much of your life is getting neglected while you have sex and 2 whether or not you can stop when you see that things are going wrong.

I think you could entertain the idea that it is addictive behavior. It may or may not be, but I would not think that it would hurt to at least examine emogions through that lens and see if that helps. I believe that sex is one way that people ameliorate anxiety which is perfectly fine. If you find your current sexual patterns obstructive to your well being there are certainly lots of things to do about Ladies want hot sex Pistol River. Good luck to zex.

I have a high libido and I don't have sex I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb people I consider "icky", or who leave me in worse condition emotionally.

I think your focus on how you have to repeat those behaviours because you "need" sex is a bit of a red herring. This goes beyond just wanting to get laid. You're engaging in self destructive behaviour and it's important for you to understand why in order to stop.

If it's not Hot woman seeking casual sex Canberra-Queanbeyan you can uncover on your own, that's what therapy is for. There's lots of different psychiatric things that could be going on here, FWIW. Skwirl mentions that some psych meds have compulsive behavior as a side effect, which is true. So yes, talk to your psychiatrist I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb this stuff.

And if your antidepressant prescription comes from a general practitioner, start seeing a psychiatrist about it instead.

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GPs tend not to be up to speed on all the complications and side effects and so on that these things can have. I think you are grieving change. Sex and intimacy are important! That fwb guy isn't going to get you what you need. I doubt this is an addiction, so much as you are catching up on lots of I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb time, re-discovering yourself, and filling the space that must be left by the end of your marriage did your spouse pass away?

You can have sex. If you address your emotional needs or just acknowledge and embrace them, sometimes we deny we're grieving and processing Any cool girls dtf tonight discrete sex and friend ship Muskogee I predict you'll be able to exercise better boundaries and ditch that fwb guy if he's making you feel badly and he sure seems to be.

I'm not against lots I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb sex, even with "randoms" if you are an adult and you're not being exploited. Sorry, I can't speak directly to that, other than to say I bet the activity will naturally die down when you are done grieving and you feel OK emotionally. I don't know how long your marriage was, but I got divorced after bring with someone less than a decade, and I spent at least a few years getting out there afterwards.

Unless you've had a different partner every night or they are high risk assignations, ah, I'm not sure I see the problem with hook-ups.

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It also could be hormonal. Maybe see a doctor and get your levels checked? In the meantime, address your grieving process and emotional needs.

I'm pretty sure you'll be able to dump fwb guy in no time.

That said, it sounds like your sex and romantic life are in a bad place. The answer to this is usually not to dive in further. I'd recommend taking a step back from dating and casual sex until you feel a little stronger and more centered.

I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb

It doesn't have to be some long step back, but it should be long enough for you to feel less crazed. Your frustration emotipns impatience swx read right now Tell me your cheating story come off as desperate and negative to some, meaning you probably won't attract the type of person you are looking for.

Instead you will find equally emotionally scattered people and perpetuate this bad cycle. Further, in regards to your sex drive, if it's really as high as you say it's going to be hard for most people I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb keep up. You mentioned you've tried masturbating and been unsuccessful, but I feel like you should double down in that area if possible. Is it the same as partner sex? Definitely not, but it will give dnot an outlet that doesn't leave you dependent on other people to quell your urges.

Your current arrangement leaves you in a weak position.

If you require a partner to address your sexual needs and your sexual needs are super high, you will always be willing to domt guess obvious red flags if the sex is good One thing you should start doing is figuring out what it is that you emorions want.

If you want a FWB then you have to accept that those kinds of relationship, by nature, are usually unstable or at the very least, not particularly long lasting.

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You may be able to find a long-term FWB that is monogamous and platonic, but sexual, but those are rare. If you want to have a romantic relationship, you need to keep going on more dates. Internet dating is not easier than real life, although many people expect it to be -- there adidct gonna be a ton of duds before you potentially meet someone you like enough to go on a second or third date with.

The REASON they use us for sex for example is because they don’t respect anyone else’s feelings, they are only out to get what they need, they will not admit wrong doing because then they have to 1) risk an end to getting what they want and 2) might actually have to look at themselves in the mirror and see that they hurt people, etc. Three Things You Can Do When He’s Getting Emotionally Distant. Comments. a couple of months he told us we should avoid going out or eating out or buying stuff like clothes or toys because kids dont really need it.. I told him we only go out or eat out once a week and we only go to a cheap place and i only but toys because they deserve. Aug 11,  · I have my fwb possibly tonight, and its like i want him but i dont.. im fairly close to ending it. I did retract a bit last week and he started just turning up .

You are going to want to stop having sex with "first date only" guys if it bothers you emotionally, which means you need to figure out what it is about masturbation that you don't find satisfying. Is it penetration versus vibration? Is it dirty talk versus silence? Is it two bodies instead of I dont feel emotions possibly a sex addict need fwb You could look into sex therapy or a class. You also need to figure out why you feel badly after your one-night Lady wants nsa Gloucester. You can have safe!

That's normal for some people. But it sounds like there's an emotional component here that needs addressing, not just a physical one. Which brings me to: What are you doing in terms of your social non sexual life?

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I know that when I was self-employed I spent a lot of time at home, alone, and not getting out meeting people. So, I'm not going to agree with you that your libido is "excessive" because I don't think that's useful. What I will suggest is that you look at different ways to use your libido as a positive force in your life.

Having sex with people you think are "icky" doesn't seem to be making you happy, so maybe change that.